A friend recently confided in me that her and her husband were having a bit of a “dry spell”. They just could not seem to get it together, sexually. She claimed the responsibility was with her. A healthy sex life is an important part of marriage. This is something that can happen to anyone and does happen to many of us. We talked about what was going on with her. She is very busy and juggling many balls in the air. She is currently in a very masculine career field and we felt this maybe affecting some of her ability to embrace her femininity and be authentically a sensual woman. We decided to write a spell to call in a healthy sex life for her and her husband. I decided to also invoke the spell for myself. A little help in this department is never a bad thing.
Additionally we decided to collect wildflowers to make a bouquet as an offering to the fire. We chose the flowers, leaves, and various plants and gave each one a particular purpose and intention. Here are some of the things I put into my bouquet along with the intention they held.
I chose clover for the sweetness, Birch Bark to fan the flames of desire, an orange flower to stimulate my sensuality (related to the sacral Chakra), a yellow flower to help me embrace my personal power and build healthy self-esteem (related to the Solar Plexus Chakra), and an Oak Leaf for strength. There were other components but these are just some examples in case you decide to create your own healthy sex life bouquet.
Below is the spell we wrote to go with the bouquet. I can tell you, that for me, it worked very well; my husband and my sex life improved after its invocation.
Healthy Sex Life spell:
We call on Aphrodite – please help us feel beautiful, sensual, sexual and ooze with sensuality. We call on you to light the fire of our pleasure and personal enjoyment of sexuality.
Ostara we call you for the animal magnetism. We ask you to stoke within us the want and desire to enjoy our sexual nature and sensual, sexual power of submitting to our partner. Fan our flames that Aphrodite started to regulate our Sacral Chakra.
We ask Mother Earth to help us find perfect rhythms with the cycles of life and our bodies. May we feel the desire for joining sexually with our perfect partner; naturally and frequently and in perfect harmony.
It is safe to be feminine, sexual, and powerful – it is all one – it is a sacred experience of creation. We enjoy our power and sensual being as authentic and intentional.
And so it is!
So mote it be!